Director's Messages

This is a selection of messages from the Director of the Oneness-Family School, Andrew Kutt.

Below are selected previous messages:

   Personal Growth of Each Student

   Twelve Lessons

   Tomato Plants

   On the Basketball Court

  Why We Should Teach Students about World Religions

 

 

Why We Should Teach Students About World Religions

 

Andrew Kutt, Director


We live in a society that, in spite of the best efforts of our governmental leaders, remains socially fragmented, racially and economically polarized, and morally conflicted. Socially, many stresses such as crime, drugs, and breakdown of families, tear the fabric of our communities. Racially, we as a culture have not dealt honestly and openly with issues that go back to our very foundation as a country, and as a result, many of us feel that generations-old wounds remain unhealed. Economically, we are still a long way from providing equal opportunity to individuals in all segments of our society; we have not yet figured out how to truly empower every citizen to be successful. Morally, we struggle to maintain a balance between freedom and responsibility, and therefore it seems to others in the world that we are a society of selfish and self-centered individuals that live in contradiction to our founding principles.

 

These serious social maladies, I believe, have a common source, which is the materialistic worldview that pervades the world we live in. The underlying message of the marketing that our multinational corporations barrage us with on a daily basis is that the main goal of life is merely to provide for one's physical comfort and wellbeing.  This powerful message implies that if we acquire enough of the right things, then happiness will be ours. Yet deep inside us we know that true happiness can only come from a more profound source. In order to aspire toward this happiness we must address what my Professor Thomas Puchalsky used to call "the big questions. These are the metaphysical questions of life, such as, "Who am I?" "Where have I come from?" "What is the meaning of my life on earth?" etc.

 

Another way of describing the problem is that if we spend all of our time only with material concerns of life, then we are in effect defining ourselves as primarily material and not spiritual beings. If we define ourselves purely in physical and not metaphysical terms, we not only savagely reduce the scope of our human experience, but we cut ourselves off from the underlying mysteries of life and the universe. And it is the contemplation of these very mysteries - which has provided hope, spiritual sustenance, and inspiration to human beings for millennia.

 

This does not mean that in our society we do not have devout individuals who fervently practice and live by their particular faith. But as a whole, our society does not place a high value on spiritual pursuits. We are much more likely, for instance, to encourage our children to put their "nose to the grindstone". We want them to get into the best college so they can get the best job and can make the most money. This way they can live the most comfortable lives and they can provide their children with an even greater opportunity to achieve all of the above.

 

There is nothing evil or wrong with these goals in themselves. But what is missing from this message? Our society is more likely to mold children in this way than we are to encourage them to find spiritual meaning in their lives, or to help them understand that outer success and inner fulfillment are two very different things. Perhaps it is because we are not fully conscious of the need for spiritual meaning ourselves, or perhaps we recognize the need but do not know the means by which to help our children.

 

In my view, this spiritual vacuum in our society has two main causes. The first is the fact that many young adults do not truly find meaning in the traditional religions as easily as their ancestors did. This does not necessarily mean that they deny the possibility of a Supreme Being. In many cases, they might still outwardly practice the religion they were brought up with as a child. But, for whatever reason, many young adults are still searching to find deeper spiritual meaning themselves. And sometimes the traditional religions do not move them at the deeper core of their being; do not truly inspire them; do not provide the spiritual nourishment that those religions may have provided for their parents and grandparents.

 

The second cause is the result of the history of the laws surrounding the separation of church and state in the United States. In our country we cannot teach religion in school, and there are obvious and very good reasons for this, many of which constitute the foundation of the American Revolution itself. But let's examine how this law has been interpreted and implemented. For example, as we all know, students are not allowed to pray or meditate in public schools. There is rarely any discussion of religion or belief systems.  Until the recent character education movement, there were very few programs teaching values. The underlying message we unwittingly send to our students is that the mysteries of the universe cannot be addressed or accessed at school. I believe this creates a disconnect between life and school. At the same time, it cuts out the foundation of a meaningful education.  It implies that one cannot or should not ponder the deeper mysteries when we are out in the world or conducting our daily lives.

 

Regarding the first cause, the ambivalence of many adults in our culture regarding their own spiritual beliefs and values makes them feel ill-equipped to be spiritual guides to their children in the traditional sense. If the adults are still on the journey of their own spiritual quest, then they feel they cannot provide the definite answers regarding matters of religion that their parents and grandparents did for them. Yet what if we were to review our role as adults and change the paradigm. Instead of feeling insecure about our inability to provide all the answers, what's wrong with being honest with our children and telling them that we ourselves are still searching for those answers?

 

By establishing a dialogue with our children and our students about these matters, we can only deepen our relationship with them, and at the same time, encourage them on their own journeys of spiritual fulfillment.

 

On the other hand, regarding the second cause, I believe we have strayed far from what the founding fathers and mothers intended regarding education. Unquestionably, the protections inherent in the separation of church and state are invaluable to the health of our free society. However, what if we were to consider other ways of honoring this separation of church and state that is so fundamental to our social underpinnings? What if students were allowed to practice / share / experience silence for a short time each day?  They could be encouraged to use this time in any way they saw fit - to silently pray, meditate, contemplate questions or problems they have, or simply relax and daydream. Regardless of which religion they believed in and even if they were agnostics or atheists, they could find something meaningful to do during this short period of silence. So as not to infringe upon the constitution, guidelines could be issued to teachers regarding this period of the school day, much as guidelines are issued for so many other aspects of public school life.

 

In addition, what if, instead of forbidding any talk of religion in school, a world religions unit was taught to all classes each year. It could be mandatory at certain grade levels, just as there are testing and other curriculum requirements at certain levels. We would not be teaching religion, but rather teaching the study of religions. Students would then learn at a young age that people worship in many different ways. They would understand some of the different ideas of God (including systems that do not believe in a personal god), the various explanations of the universe, the rituals that people practice, the holidays they honor, and the places and objects they hold sacred.

 

If students were fortified with such knowledge and understanding, they would be much less likely to be poisoned by the bigotry and intolerance which is so pervasive in our world. They would grow up to be open, accepting, and understanding young adults. They would be less inclined to need to create in-groups and out-groups; to separate people into categories by their preferences, affiliations, dress, customs or habits. Based upon news reports, it is precisely this syndrome of in-groups and out-groups that led in part to the Littleton, Colorado shootings.

 

The next step in this world religions curriculum would be simple: Drawing upon our lessons on world religions, students would then be introduced to spiritual principles, values and virtues, which are common to all religions - principles such as kindness, compassion, respect for life, forgiveness, generosity, honesty, diligence, humility etc.

 

Each week or each month, one virtue would be chosen by the school or the class to be taught and modeled by the teachers, then practiced by all members of the school community, including the parents. Next, students would be acknowledged and positively reinforced when they put these principles into practice in their daily lives. Then these virtues could be discussed and acknowledged at class meetings, assemblies, PTA's etc. so that all members of the school community are on the same page vis-a-vis the goals of teaching virtues in connection with the study of world religions. Following the above plan, students would develop character according to a deeper understanding of themselves and their place in the world. They would develop an understanding that our lives as human beings only have true and lasting meaning in relationship to other people and in relationship to those deeper mysteries which link us all together.

 

Finally, what if, instead of making individuals wait till they take a high school or college philosophy course, young students were encouraged to inquire about the things they are naturally so interested in: How old is the world?  Where did human beings come from? Does the universe have an end? What happens when living things die? While religion provides specific answers to these questions, the program I am proposing would simply honor the questions. To honor the questions does not mean we have to provide answers. As author Aline Wolf suggests, to honor these questions might be as simple as saying to the child, "You know what, that's a very good question, and people have been asking that question for hundreds and thousand of years!". If we are afraid of welcoming these questions in our children and students, what does that say about us? We must not be so insecure about our own beliefs and values that we cannot honor and validate these very human questions voiced by our young people.

 

Studying world religions has other potential benefits as well. It can also give students a frame of reference for better understanding their own religion. Gently encouraging spiritual questioning can help students feel more comfortable that their wonderment is natural; that their feelings of awe and excitement are good things. Moreover, allowing students to practice silence for a short period each day can help them to become aware that they have an inner life which functions on a different track from their outer day-to-day activities.

 

Inevitably, studying world religions will keep families reminded of their own priorities in life, as they strive to meet the challenges of a fast-paced and sometimes crazy world. These activities and discussions I propose, if presented carefully and conscientiously, would not be offensive to educators or parents – regardless of religious persuasion. For the goals of this work are to foster tolerance, respect, greater understanding, natural spiritual awareness, inspiration, and imagination.

 

All of these goals are virtues that enhance and edify our children’s character and make them better people. Having taught world religions since 1988, I have not met one parent who felt that their family's own religious teaching or practice was disturbed or violated by the world religions curriculum. On the contrary, parents have been overwhelmingly supportive over the years. They have offered to come in to teach special lessons about their own religious festivals or rituals. They have also volunteered to join on field tips to religious shrines, churches and temples so they could better understand other religions themselves and have a better basis for discussions with their children.

 

I believe that addressing the spiritual part of the child as part of the educational process is the key to beginning to solve our social ills. I also believe that the beginning of a social transformation must be a personal renewal. Through studies of world religions and spiritual principles, each child can be imbued with the consciousness of the ancient Greek ideals - the good, the true, and the beautiful. When this consciousness is present in the students, they will automatically make good choices. Out of this consciousness can be born the fundamental respect for life that could be the basis of our social healing. Our communities can be rebuilt on the foundation of spiritual principles that are honored and practiced by all.

 

Meanwhile, if we learn, and our children learn, to practice forgiveness - first of ourselves, and then of others - we can begin to come to terms with those parts of our heritage that are difficult to acknowledge. These include the scourge of slavery, the treatment of the native peoples of this continent, as well as the greed, prejudice and intolerance that have caused so much pain and suffering throughout our history. As our students grow according to these spiritual principles and the greater awareness they bring, they will realize that pain cannot be divided into "my pain" and "your pain". The realities of our racial and ethnic problems have their origin in a history that we all share and that together we can transcend and even draw strength from.

 

 Furthermore, by including world religion lessons and activities in our educational program, we can encourage students to help us make a shift to a more spiritually grounded society. To achieve economic equity for our citizens, we as citizens must first realign the inequities in our personal lives between what we need and what we want. The spiritual and the material must nurture and reinforce each other. As students experience and observe this truth on a daily basis, they will be less able to tolerate economic inequities in society as a whole, and, as they grow into adults, they will work to correct them.

 

Finally, as students become more spiritually aware they will, perhaps more easily than we, find a sense of balance in their own lives, especially between freedom and responsibility, between rights and duties. By introducing them to world religions and the spiritual principles that the world religions share, we can help our students realize that working for the common good is as important as striving for personal achievement; and that success without spiritual fulfillment and inner meaning can never bring lasting happiness.

 

The materialism and consumerism that have come to so dominate the consciousness of our society will begin to be transformed when we place a greater value on spiritual concerns. We can show our children that we value spiritual growth by spending more time teaching, discussing, and contemplating the world religions and great religious teachers - and the important messages they have offered us through the ages. And we can accomplish this in a manner that can and should be acceptable to all those who sincerely want to practice spiritual principles in their own lives, and who want to see the whole world as one family.